"Stay Gold" (Johnny Cade). An individual who eventually learns to understand to empathize with this quote is the protagonist of "The Outsiders," Ponyboy Curtis. This fact is demonstrated throughout the novel as Ponyboy gradually learns about his friends, heroism, stereotypes, and life in general, which helped him to grow and develop as a person in the story. These lessons are highlighted by his understanding of the importance of empathy and comprehension, the value of family and community, and learning about the risks and consequences of violence and aggression. Throughout the book, Ponyboy comes to understand that people are more complex than their superficial appearance or economic status might suggest. He learns to attempt to understand where others are coming from and to look beyond all the stereotypes and prejudices he had grown up with. This is particularly evident in his relationship with Cherry Valance, a Soc, whom he initially views as an adversary due to their differences in social class, but with whom he would eventually come to understand and even sympathize as the story progresses. This shows how Ponyboy learns the importance of empathy and understanding. Despite the many …show more content…
However, despite it, he also learned that violence has serious consequences and can sadly lead to tragedy. This is underscored by the deaths of several characters in the book, including Johnny, who dies after suffering severe injuries in a church fire, and Dally, who dies after being shot by the police after robbing a grocery store with an unloaded gun. By the end of the novel, Ponyboy had come to understand that violence only ends up leading to more violence and that the best way to solve problems is through communication and