“There are roughly four hundred thousand children in the US foster care system. Of those children, approximately one hundred thousand are waiting to be adopted” (Developmental Issues for Young Children in Foster Care, 2000). Many people feel as if life is meaningless without the gift of becoming a parent. Before couples consider adopting a child, many of them undergo infertility treatments, such as in-vitro fertilization. Some people are successful, but numerous people are not successful in conceiving, furthermore; in-vitro fertilization treatments are expensive and do not always work. Yet, there are not enough people adopting children within the foster care system. It is somewhat of an anomaly why would one undergo in-vitro fertilization when …show more content…
Most couples identify the age difference, sex, and the number of children they desire to have, furthermore; when adopting, these features are much easier to dictate. When undergoing in-vitro fertilization, there is no certainty of any of the above-listed characteristics. Moreover, an additional concern is the health of the child. Many couples are afraid of health issues the child may have, however; the adopting couple can investigate the family health history before deciding to adopt. Clearly, when desiring to cherry-pick the traits of his or her future child, adoption is a far superior choice for couples than in-vitro …show more content…
Some traits are plastic, in that these traits are not permanent and have the potential change, but others are not. In personality traits, adoptees are more similar to their biological parents than to their caregiving adoptive parents. Moreover, parenting is the only factor that actually matters. “The genetic leash may limit the family environment’s influence on personality, but this does not mean that adoptive parenting is a fruitless venture. Parents do influence their children’s attitudes, values, manners, faith and politics” (Meyers, 72). Although an adopted child’s personality may differ from that of the adoptee’s, many people will agree that that specific diversity is something to celebrate and not be afraid of. Despite some personality differences between adoptive family members, children will greatly benefit from