Throughout our lives we are always being told different advice from everyone about what we should do, who we should talk to, where we should go among many other things. In the book, “The Humans”, by Matt Haig, an alien came down and bestowed upon a teenage kid pieces of advice that he should live by after living on Earth for a while. The three most important pieces of the alien’s advice were, “Happiness is not out there. It is in there”, “Everything matters”, and “You are more than the sum of your particles. And that is quite a sum.” All of them show how we are more than we think and should live our lives the way we want. The first piece of advice, really means you cannot rely on other people or things to be happy only yourself. By saying “It