Everything has its secrets “Persuade him that he wants to come with us more than he wants to stay... if that doesn’t work ill lie to him”(Card16).In the book “Enders Game” by Orson Scott Card, one of the main characters Colonel Graff leads ender through his missions. Ender is chosen from a mix of his brother and sister’s personalities. Peter was too violent, Valentine was to caring and forgiving, and thus ender has both these characteristics. Graff has been watching him, even before battle school and has secretly been testing him. Graff prepares him for a life changing war between them and the buggers. Graff is a great leader by what he is able to accomplish. Graff was at a point were all his watching and testing could be for nothing. Not wanting to leave is family ender finally makes his choice, “It’s what I was born for, isn’t it? If I don’t go, why am I alive? I don’t want to go, but I will” (card26). Ender could of told him no, and stayed and watched his world die but he didn’t. He knew that he was different for a reason and this was his reason to leave. His parents would forget and move on and he would forget about them. When all is done he can still come back to his family, and most importantly Valentine “Come back to me! I love you forever” (Card26). …show more content…
A bad side of Colonel Graff is that he gets what he wants through manipulation. It gets what needs done but you lose your trust. Graff only wanted the war to end so “Of course we tricked you into it, that’s the whole point” (Card298). Ender was most definitely hurt by this, but hey it got the job done didn’t it? All of Enders commanders knew what he was really doing, all except Ender. Because even “If you knew, then you couldn’t do it” (Card298). Ender was so mad when he found out what happened that all he could do was ignore it and go to sleep. So by manipulating people you get what you want but there is also a default to