Do you ever experience to love and to be love by the person that you wanted the most? What were your different interpretations of loving? How long can you wait and withstand everything just to have that person in your life? Do you have what it takes to suffer from loving a person? As we go on through our life, we are learning and understanding circumstances that the world offers us. Those encounters in life may have emotional power on you and how you deal with personal state of mind and on how can you cope with that situation. Love, it is great when you experience that word. It is not a spontaneous understanding to know what really love is. Maybe it is a feeling, an emotion, a disease, or something that may let you feel special. In the novel, …show more content…
The novel tells us not to give up everything for our own happiness. Some of it may communicate to us that it is not always right and correct when in the expressions of loving, it may be the greatest mistake that you can do to your life if you fall fool to the emotions you experienced. I experienced the happiness of being loved by that person when we spend time with each other not complaining on everything, seizing the memories of being together and cherishing the time that we are providing for each other. I can describe the happiness of loving in that context of love. We all have different kinds of happiness in loving a person. One can experience that happiness when they always keep in touch with each other through text messages, love letters, spending time together, dates, gifts, giving sexual pleasure for that person, and most of it is just being with that most special …show more content…
It makes the person think of someone constantly due to the obsession of having love in return, because at some point the person is hoping for the possibilities of that person he love will notice him and will be able to give chance to the love he has offered. In the novel, Florentino was so obsessed because of love after he saw Fermina to the point where he even wrote a bunch of love letters at one night for Fermina. He even wants to see Fermina everyday which leads him to stalk her every day at the park, which was noted by aunt Escolastica. Florentino even played violin for Fermina everyday near their house for her to hear the love that is in the music of his violin and by playing violin every day for Fermina, he was caught by the police because he was accused of being a spy and delivering secret messages through his violin. He was even sent to jail but instead of regretting and realizing the things he had done he obsessively thinks that he was sent to jail because it represents the sign of his love for Fermina. This kind of love nowadays is still and there are still people are obsessed because of love, this kind of love usually leads a person to become mentally disturbed and it doesn’t help them to get the love that they want because sometimes being so obsess to someone leads to being avoided or ignored by the person they love. It also sometimes the cause of an