My personality is ENFJ, which means I help others before I help myself. An ENFJ is an ambitious and driven person that wants to put their vision for humanity into action. They are also energetic, and is optimistic because they believe that there is always room for improvement in the future. ENFJs ' might find themselves disappointed a lot because they expect the best out of everyone around them and not just themselves. They are very hard working to keep strong relationships with people, and they want to be a valuable part of those people 's lives. ENFJ is not a typical personality type because only three percent of the general population has it. Women make up three percent of it while men only make up two.