Effective Counselor Characteristics and Behaviors
It is very imperative that a counselor recognize the characteristics in their clients. Clients possess at great number of characteristic that are as active in the counseling process as are the characteristics of the professional counselor, (In B. T. Erford (Ed.). Kottler (2003) stated that the professional counselor must be “vibrant, inspirational, and charismatic;” “sincere, loving and nurturing:'” and “wise, confident, and self-disciplined (p. 3). A effective counselor's job has a two way street. It takes a cooperation and commitment an effort by both the client, who is receiving counseling and the counselor, who is given the counseling. This is sometimes a difficult change in behavior
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An effective counselor can identify negative thinking patterns that may be feeding feelings of sadness, depression, or anxiety. A counselor should encouraging a client to build upon personal strengths and suggesting skills that can overcome self-inflicted feelings of hopelessness, a counselor can help their client to develop a more positive attitude. (In B. T. Erford (Ed.).
Effective Characteristics In the transcript, “Effective Counselor Characteristics and Behaviors,” I noticed quite a few postie characteristics that Steve, the counselor incorporated into his session with Bill, the client. He started the session be vibrant and showing sincere concern, (Kottler, 2003). He asked open-ended questions and listen to the answers that his client gave him. This encouraged the his client to openly communicate with him the issues he was having. He was also very nurturing toward the end of their session making his client feel that there is hope and help for him, (Kottler, 2003). Ineffective
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The client Bill did not say that he threatened his wife, and the client was offended by this state This, I feel made his client at ease. He did not use self-discipline in listening to what his client was trying to portray and over stepped the boundaries as far as making such a suggestion. His client was not inspired at first with the way the session was going and Steve knew it and got back on the right track. One of the most important process in counseling is getting permission. When Steve stated, “Oh, I also forgot to get you to sign the informed consent when you came in,” This is a document that states you understand that what you and I say in here is confidential and that I can only break confidentiality if you threaten to harm yourself, someone else, or abuse a child. Can you sign right here for me?” (Laureate Education, Inc., 2012). Professional counselors are ethically bound to provide their clients with informed consent (Sheperis & Ellis, 2010). Even though the counselor did in this transcript it should have been done in the beginning of the session so the client was assured of his confidentiality from the beginning, this may have changed some of his responses and the impact the client had a on his counselor's characteristic and on the session.
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