They say the path to confidence is not a direct route. There are always things getting in the way of us fully accepting ourselves; whether those be forces outside of us or inside of us. We are constantly bombarded with images of girls that are a size 2, naturally or photoshopped. Sometimes, the inside forces are more vicious than the magazines. We are so hard on ourselves. We focus on every little imperfection and turn it into a huge insecurity. For example, I hate the roll that appears when you put your arms down. I think about them all the time. It took me a little while to realize that no one else was looking. I doubt anyone has ever thought, “wow, look at that girl’s armpit roll.” Most of the insecurities we have are only visible to us.