Think back to the beginning of each of one's friendships/ relationships; where did it begin, how did that relationship evolve? In The Curious Incident of the Dog in The Night Time by Mark Haddon, the story of Christopher- a teenage boy with autism clearly depicts the foundation of each of his daily relationships. The most interesting aspect of this book is Christopher’s perspective on everyday life. His rare perspective gives insight into how others perceive and feel about their closest relationships. The foundation of all good relationships is trust. The best of relationships involve complete honesty with the people it concerns, however this is not always the case. Christopher experiences dishonesty with his father, the effects of lying …show more content…
For Christopher however this phrase takes on a whole new meaning. Not only does Christopher have zero trust for people in society but he fears them. Due to Christopher's strong belief that there is no relationship where there is no trust he has little patience for anyone that he hasn't known for a long period of time. Chris says, “I do not like strangers because I do not like people I have never met before. They are hard to understand.” This quote also gives us an understanding of how his autism affects his ability to have relationships with strangers. Just like Christopher, people struggle every day with the beginning of relationships and who to put their trust in. For example, many could relate to the scene where Chris talks to Ms.Alexander. She goes inside to get some snacks but as time passes Chris expresses his fear towards her innocent offerings, “I began to get nervous because i didn't know what she was doing in the house. I didn't know her well enough to know whether she was telling the truth about getting orange squash and Battenburg cake.”(41) This is a perfect example of how Chris’s inability to trust strangers gets in the way of him forming relationships. The reason Chris has very few relationships is that he is not open to establishing trust with new people. Being afraid of strangers is not just a problem for Chris but something many struggle with on a daily basis. Chris’s behavior proves why Trust is the key or foundation of any