John Gray Assess The Importance Of Knowing When Men Are Different From Mars

John Gray is one of the best relationship counselor in America. He was born in Houston, Texas, The United States on first January 1951.He counsels men and women on how to understand each other well by accepting both professional and personal differences in lives. He reached the top of the world in 1992, when his bestselling book MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUSwas published. Over 7 million copies were sold around the world. It was also translated in 40 different languages for the non speaking English readers. His wife inspired him a lot in writing this book. An incident which took place when their daughter Lauren was born made him realise the real meaning of love and how easy life was if you really understood the opposite sex better.

Since they are more like people from two different world .The way they communicate and behave are totally different .According to Gray’s book men expects women to think ,communicate and react the way men do. And women tends to expect men to react the way women do. They doesn’t remember that both sex are supposed to be different. Due to this misunderstanding conflicts starts to begin and ruin a relation ship. So we must understand and respect them with their difference in order to avoid conflicts .When we understand the hidden difference between the opposite sex we can effectively give and take the love which is in buried in our hearts. We can make our love last if we expect and remember the difference.(chapter

Women want them to be cared , understood and respected by their spouse, while men need a love where there is trust, acceptance and appreciation. The type of love is often misunderstood by the two sex and they tend to give the love they need by them to their partners. The author also discuss on how some words are interpreted by the both sex. The word “OK” or “it is fine “has two different meanings when they both use it at the same time. Gray also explores on why women do not like to ask for help when they badly need it and they expect men to understand it without telling them. He also gives advice on how to avoid arguments and find solutions to their