An Eternal Task of Human Relationship Marriage and divorce are usually on a side-by-side position. Unlike our standard of living, the rate of divorce in the country cannot certainly be optimistic by the technology development since the marriage is deeply engaged in people’s emotion. There is no hundred percent guarantee to have a successful marriage life, although it is not impossible to make it better in some ways because they tend to consider the marriage is only an extension or goal of their “Romantic Relationship.” Nevertheless, the marriage is not the goal of relationship; it is the start line of the relationship between husband and wife. There are countless examples of divorce around us, then why do people keep having divorce in their …show more content…
Astonishingly, as to go on reading the “Marriage,” readers are going to realize that all the concerns of his love are only his imagination. Even though regardless of the imagination, the poem begins with unstable statements of immature love for the protagonist of the poem still ensure with his mind. The beginning of the poem, “Should I get married?” “Should I be Good?” and “Astound the girl next door with my velvet suit and faustus hood?” brings an image of transitory emotion of him. He does not have hundred percent confidences to his love, and even look confused with himself. Additionally, the line continued from the first part, “then desire her and kiss her and all the preliminaries and she just so far and I understanding why not getting angry saying You must feel! It’s beautiful to feel!” Among the flows of his desires through the poem, it is obvious that he is lack of steadfast resolution. Consequently, the principal emotion of the poem is “ingenuous” sexual urge, which also can be paraphrased as …show more content…
Having a partner whose attitude is unwavering and tolerant as the protagonist of the “To My Dear and Loving Husband” definitely has higher potentials of happy marriage to compare with the person in the “Marriage.” The people who step into the time of marriage with realistic mind, strong passion, and steadfast resolution tend to have a satisfactory marriage life since they can have large time consideration to make a decision, which is usually supposed to be once in a lifetime. Therefore, the people should have more awareness of their marriage if they do not want to experience the divorce; do not be like the person in the “Marriage.” There is a quite massive gap between the expected distortions and unexpected distortions, and it is obvious which is better to face