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Motivational Interview Essay

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Recently, I brought up to my mom some things I wanted to change as a young adult going to college. As someone who is young and trying to figure out what is for them, I feel like there needed to be a change in what I was allowed to do and what I was not allowed to do. Growing up as a kid, it is common for a parent to control what a child can do. But, as that child grows from nine years old to nineteen, change is necessary. Coming to college, I made an oath to myself that I wanted to get out there and enjoy the college experience. I wanted to experience all that college had to offer including the parties, the school events, and even those I hung around. One of the most efficient ways that I got my mom to understand me was through Motivational …show more content…

Motivational Interviewing is a process in which you are trying to change someone’s emotional beliefs. In this situation, I am trying to bring to my mom’s attention that I am not a little girl anymore and that she taught me how to defend myself whenever I needed to. I realized that during this conversation I was about to have with my mother, I should not come off as trying to tell her what to do. As Grant states, “The goal isn’t to tell people what to do; it’s to help them break out of overconfidence cycles and see new possibilities.” (136) I was simply just going to try and help her decide and I was planning on to respect her decision regardless. She felt as if I was fragile, and the world is a place that loves to break fragile things. This was something I understood …show more content…

The most important step of all motivational interviewing is to listen. After asking questions, I listened to give myself and her the freedom to say everything that was needed. I made sure I took into consideration how she felt and how letting me go out could affect her. My mom’s biggest thing in raising us was making sure we were safe at all times, in all places, and with all different types of personalities (people). This was something I completely understood. This step was the biggest turning point in my mom’s and I’s conversation. She could see I was listening to her and not dismissing her feelings. She could see that I was going to support her decision regardless of what she chose. Most importantly, she could see that I was not manipulating her or belittling

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