In a Place Too Far Away A lot of things can make up a person; their hair, their eyes, their figure, but it’s one’s experiences that truly make them up. People experience many different things every day. Some stick with you and form you while others fade. I am going to share how moving helped form who I am today. By convincing myself I wasn’t really moving, giving up on something I couldn’t control and learning how to fix everything all of a sudden, I got through moving to a little place a little too far away. My life was perfect before I found out. I had several friends, had finally come out to all of them, and was simply just happy where I was. There could have been a tornado hurling around baby Satans or a volcano erupting outside my window and I still would have been like; wow it’s a beautiful day. I was so high on life and expected senior year to only make it better. Nothing could bring me down until he told us. My dad told my sister and me he had good news and bad news when we went out for …show more content…
We all feel like crap, we all care too much about something and we all want something we can’t have. I accepted that things don’t always work out; things don’t always go the way you planned them and things change. The sooner I began to realize that the more comfortable I became with the fact that things were changing. I realized that if I couldn’t change what was changing then I shouldn’t try to change it. This is a clear example of insight learning because out of nowhere I realized that there was no point in being a big baby over everything. “When the solution to a problem comes to you in an all-of-a-sudden manner, it can be considered insight. More specifically, insight can be defined as the sudden and often novel realization of the solution to a problem.” (“Insight,”2016) I learned that there’s no point in obsessing over something that I have no control over and I just kind of let it