danah boyd associates social media as a “cool place” where people can interact. However, Sherry Turkle states that technology helps teens hide behind social media. Technology alienates teens from society, which is why they lose their ability to interact face to face. Despite all the advantages of connecting with people from a distance, technology has a negative effect on people, such as miscommunication, false identity, and insecurities between companionship that results in severe consequences such as miscommunication, unable to interact, and false identity. Although social media is used to bridge the gap between friends, it creates different anxieties because they want to fit in and does not want to be rejected. “It enables youth to create …show more content…
“By the mid- 2000s, with the mainstreaming of internet access and the rise of social media- and especially MySpace, Facebook, and Twitter- sharing information and connecting to friends online became an integrated part of daily life for many people, and especially the teens who came of age during this period” (boyd, 7). boyd mentions that technology is another form of connecting with people. It has become a habit in a person’s daily routine that they can access their friends online by uploading pictures or sharing details on what happened during their day. “When I meet Randy, his sister Nora, twenty-four, had just announced her engagement and wedding date via email to a list of friends and family. “That,” Randy says to me bitterly, “is how I got the news.” He doesn’t know if he is more angry or hurt” (Turkle, 15). Turkle states that Randy was hurt by the fact that his own sister just emailed him to inform him of the wedding instead of saying in person the good news of her marriage. Turkle use the term “Goldilocks” to express that one’s actions can affect others. Randy’s sister did not even have the decency to tell him face to face. It is upsetting to see that people spend too much time on social media that they cannot even speak in person and prefer texting or emailing instead. People have become too reliable on technology. They communicate so much online that they cannot deal with a person face to face. They are attaching themselves with technology. People cannot understand humans in person just through devices. Texting online can lead to misunderstandings because we know Nora did not mean to offend anybody but it was taken that