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The Ways We Lie By Stephanie Ericsson

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A toolbox filled with many different tools that have many different purposes can be used to put broken things back together, or take whole things apart. This all depends on the person with the tools and their intentions. One could also substitute the toolbox for the act of lying and all of the tools inside of the box for the different types of lies that there are. In the essay written by Stephanie Ericsson, “The Ways We Lie” she examines and explains from her personal experience the different types of lies that there are. One might say that lying is immoral, and a terrible thing to do, but this just depends on how you lie and what your intentions are with the lies that you tell. If one deliberately puts oneself in a situation where they must commit a selfish lie in order to protect their reputation solely, then this would be an immoral lie. However, if one lies in order to help prevent harm or sadness upon another person than there is a logical and unselfish reason for the lie. The selfish lies are the most hurtful. The idea of lying or keeping the truth from people who care about you in order to protect your image is purely selfish. For example, in the essays written by Kate Chopin “The Storm” …show more content…

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