Personal Limitations in The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time
Individuals' personal limitations can differ from one person to the next. Everybody has personal boundaries that others are not allowed to cross, both in terms of their physical and emotional capacities. Nonetheless, these restrictions might have an impact on interpersonal interactions because they may lead to conflict if others don't respect your boundaries. The Boone family is a perfect illustration of how personal limitations can affect relationships. Ed Boone, Judy Boone, and their 15 year old autistic son, Christopher Boone, each have contrasting personal boundaries in the book The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time. Ed and Judy, the son’s parents, make
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When Christopher discovers the letters his mother wrote him that his father tried to hide from him, he says, “Then I stopped reading the letter because I felt sick. Mother had not had a heart attack. Mother had not died. Mother had been alive all the time. And Father had lied about this.” (pg 112) Christopher is adamant that he does not like liars, and could never tell a lie himself, because telling a lie is saying something that is not true. As a result of his father's deception, Christopher loses all trust in him and refuses to speak with him again. This greatly affects the relationship between Christopher and his Father, and his father has to then try and slowly gain Christopher’s trust back. He also refuses to communicate with his father, displaying his behavioral issue of not talking to people for an extended period of …show more content…
She admits to failing as a mother, stating, “I was not a good mother, Christopher.” (pg 106) She believed it was a challenge to raise Christopher, considering the condition he has and how it affects their interactions. Her letters also portray her limitations and her struggles to better herself, all while doing so with honesty. Judy writes over forty letters to Christopher, never receiving a response; however, she persists in sending them because of her love and devotion to