Personal Limitations in The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time
Individuals' personal limitations can differ from one person to the next. Everybody has personal boundaries that others are not allowed to cross, both in terms of their physical and emotional capacities. Nonetheless, these restrictions might have an impact on interpersonal interactions because they may lead to conflict if others don't respect your boundaries. The Boone family is a perfect illustration of how personal limitations can affect relationships. Ed Boone, Judy Boone, and their 15 year old autistic son, Christopher Boone, each have contrasting personal boundaries in the book The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time. Ed and Judy, the son’s parents, make
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When Christopher discovers the letters his mother wrote him that his father tried to hide from him, he says, “Then I stopped reading the letter because I felt sick. Mother had not had a heart attack. Mother had not died. Mother had been alive all the time. And Father had lied about this.” (pg 112) Christopher is adamant that he does not like liars, and could never tell a lie himself, because telling a lie is saying something that is not true. As a result of his father's deception, Christopher loses all trust in him and refuses to speak with him again. This greatly affects the relationship between Christopher and his Father, and his father has to then try and slowly gain Christopher’s trust back. He also refuses to communicate with his father, displaying his behavioral issue of not talking to people for an extended period of …show more content…
She admits to failing as a mother, stating, “I was not a good mother, Christopher.” (pg 106) She believed it was a challenge to raise Christopher, considering the condition he has and how it affects their interactions. Her letters also portray her limitations and her struggles to better herself, all while doing so with honesty. Judy writes over forty letters to Christopher, never receiving a response; however, she persists in sending them because of her love and devotion to
When his father gets home and walks into Christopher's room after Christopher has read the letters, he sees the state that his son is in and starts to freak out. His father started to caress Christopher “but it didn't hurt when he touched him, like it normally does” (Haddon 114). This reveals that when Christopher is put in a situation like this, he becomes numb to reality and what would normally affect him does not. While his father is trying to justify his actions, Christopher does not respond and remains silent as he is talking. Learning all this new information about his mother takes longer for Christopher to process and has more of a substantial effect on him since he has autism.
Raising a child like Christopher is very difficult. Christopher often disappears in the middle of the night to go out for walks and quickly becomes overwhelmed in new environments. For the better well-being of Christopher, Ed tends to be very overprotective of him. An example of this is shown when Christopher wants to do detective work to find out who killed Wellington. This idea suggests that Christopher has to talk to strangers which he is not comfortable with.
Christopher has think idea about his mom that he finds out shortly in the story that wasn 't true. He has the idea that his mother is dead and died in the hospital from being sick. He doesn 't think much about this, he doesn 't really seem concerned or really even sad. Later on he finds out that his mother and his neighbors husband had an affair and that she didn 't die she just left his father. when he find out about this he still doesn 't think much of the emotional part of what 's going on, he just wants to figure out the mystery of who killed wellington.
Christopher’s parents, Ed Boone and Judy Boone, are very important people in Christopher’s life, as well as important characters in this novel. They play a big part in his life, he wouldn’t be the kind of person he is without their constant lectures and care that they provide. Both, the mother and the father, love and care for Christopher. “She had sent me lots of love and had my Get Well card on the table beside her bed.” Before his mother passed away, and even during her slow death, Judy continued to send love to her son.
Judy Boone and Ed Boone are Christopher’s parents. Because this is true they both share one quality. They both love Christopher with all of their hearts and they want the best for him that he can possibly have. This is shown by his father when he says, “‘ Christopher, I would never, ever do any-thing to hurt you’” (Haddon, 219).
However, Christopher’s father stopped loving his mother when she betrayed his
When Christopher found out from his Dad that his mother, "died from a heart attack and it wasn't expected. ”(Haddon 27) For most people, hearing that their mom died would be devastating and would most likely change someone. But Christopher wasn't affected by it and instead while talking to a teacher at his school, he said that "when mother died she didn’t go to heaven because heaven doesn’t exist,”(Haddon 32). He says this because he doesn't believe in god so he thinks that his mother doesn't exist anymore once she dies.
In the novel The Curious Incident Of The Dog In The Night-time by Mark Haddon, the main character named Christopher faces challenges of autism and family divorce. These situations can stress a kid as they grow up, but getting through a family divorce is harder to comprehend if the child is challenged with autism. Christopher eventually finds out that the reason his parents divorced is connected to the murder of a dead dog. The author Mark Haddon uses diction, character, syntax, and imagery to help convey that when faced with challenging situations we can still get through them even if we think we can’t. Even though most of us don’t have to face the challenges that Christopher does, we can all take a few pointers from him.
In The Nighttime when Christopher's mother feels guilty over leaving and refuses to communicate with his father so they drift further apart. In the text when Christopher finds the notes his mom sent to him that his dad hid from him he reads them and finds a note where his mom is writing about how she is sorry for leaving him, she just couldn't handle him was her reasoning. Haddon 2012. This scene shows his mother trying to apologize and justify leaving him because she realizes she did wrong to him. And wants to repair their relationship both with him and his father in the end.
Christopher explains that he has difficulty figuring out people’s emotions from their facial expressions. He can easily recognize sad and happy faces, but when his therapist, Siobhan, draws some pictures of other emotions, he finds the faces are confusing and is “unable to say what these meant” (3). So he has to memorize the exact meaning of each face and quickly determine what face others are making when they talk to him. When his father lies to him about his mother’s death, he tries to figure out what he means how and his father feels: “I can't tell what [people] are thinking. It is like being in a room with a one-way mirror in a spy film''(22).
Christopher “[does not] tell lies” (Haddon 19) and his mother tells him it’s because he was a good person. Christopher was never able to lie in his life for specific reasons. Although he admits that he white lies, he says that white lying is inevitable. Christopher avoids lying to
The role of adults play a crucial role in Christopher’s life, and his father is no exception. Ed Boone has been seen as a negative influence,, as he forces Christopher to be secretive, is very unstable, and uses crude language and physical force on his son, as well as lying about crucial parts of Christopher’s life. Christopher’s father often goes to extremes when demonstrating his emotions, occasionally blowing up in anger, and he lacks the confidence to work through his problems verbally. When trying to explain himself he stutters and stops and often has trouble connecting sentences. Like Christopher, he has very few friends—Rhodri is the only one the novel mentions.
Christopher was already aware that his mother had left and had been struggling with the emotional consequences of her absence. Lying to him only served to further confuse and distress him, as he struggled to reconcile the lie with his own experiences. Moreover, Christopher's father's lie was motivated by his own self-interest. He lied to protect himself from Christopher's rejection and to avoid having to face the difficult emotions associated with his wife's abandonment.
Christopher grew up without knowing much about the world and life it self. He acts as what many would say a child. This is due to his Aspergers. In the beginning of the novel Christopher explains what he thinks of life.
Father states, "I did it for your good, Christopher" (Haddon, 114)... " Christopher I would never, ever do anything to hurt you" (Haddon, 219). These two quotes represent how much Christopher’s father would do for him, no matter how bad it is. Also it helps prove that father would never ever try to hurt Christopher. Although Christopher’s father is not perfect he still tries his hardest to raise Christopher all by himself.