You must block out the negative things people say and force your way. Basically refraining from allowing “attacks of bad humor” to pierce one's psyche and rejecting the of granting unethical ideas acess to run rampant and corrupt your positive state of being.
After reading and learning more about the “negativity bias”, and that “Over and over again, psychologists find that the human mind reacts to bad things more quickly, strongly, and persistently than to equivalent good things. We can’t just will ourselves to see everything as good because our minds are wired to find and react to threats, violations, and setbacks” (Haidt 29). In order to counteract this negativity bias, I would attempt to conduct a conscious effort to just try to process what’s happening first before I made any judgment of myself. At this time, I had no knowledge of the negativity bias, but I did know the general concepts behind it, though a bare one at that. Beating myself over a test was not going to solve my issues, and so slowing down, analyzing my study habits leading up to the exam, and reviewing my time management, became a common process for me to go through when I did not perform up to expectations.
“It is to the credit of human nature, that, except where its selfishness is brought into play, it loves more readily than it hates” (Page 155). People are more willing to love than to hate. To constantly hate someone takes a lot of time and energy, which I think is part of the reason that it is easier to love. I feel again, that this lesson is still very much a part of our society. After time, people will begin to accept you after you have done something wrong.
Emotion is influential feelings such as frustration and anger are two that take over. Bitterness is not just easy to feel it is unhesitant with time it goes
I used to be slightly rude to others that were harsh to me, but I had learned that doing what they had been doing to me was not fixing the problem, but instead creating a worst problem. Liir’s friend, Candle, explains in the book how your past makes up who you are and how you should never want to change your past by saying “Memory is a part of the present. It builds us up inside; it knits our bones to our muscles and keeps our hearts pumping. It is memory that reminds our bodies to work, and memory that reminds our spirits to work to: it keeps us who we are. ()” I have a personal connection to this quote, because I know that my past has had many up and
Consider this scenario: You’re working on a routine report at work and your boss checks up on you three times in one hour, offering suggestions. You decide that your boss is questioning your capabilities and you hold a grudge against your boss. In such situations we make two grave mistakes. The first grave mistake is that we assume our actions are based on how we are made to feel.
We know for a fact that thoughts influence actions. Why do we want that negative self talk to ourselves? We need to get ourselves our affirmations.” With this statement, Ivan intends to get people to acknowledge that negative self talk happens a lot when trying to accomplish many things but that negative self talk will only make it
While I remain aware of others emotions I have a tough time keeping my emotions in check and tend to react before taking the time to reflect on the
Nonfiction holds a powerful role in society with the ability to relate true experiences to world messages. Patricia Hampl’s essay “Grandmother’s Sunday Dinner” demonstrates that the value of a gift is not defined by its materialistic worth. Attempting to eliminate judgement of unfamiliar cultures, “Plight of the Little Emperors” from Psychology Today informs about the distinct principles of Chinese culture. In addition, “What is Poverty?” by Jo Goodwin Parker presents a call to action for alleviating the suffering of those in poverty, an ongoing world issue.
We should practice controlling our countertransference that we show to others. If any, we don’t always have to express them. We should be considerate to know that others have feelings and the way we look at them or communicate with them won’t always be positive to them. Everything we do or say should be done with
The second question with the problem with humans is “what are the innate predispositions of men?” (Becker, 1971, p. 116). The third question with the problem with humans is “what types of personality are most valued” (Becker, 1971, p. 116). The fourth question with the problem with humans is “what are the modes of relating to others” (Becker, 1971, p. 116).
Psychology is defined as the science of behavior and mental processes. The five enduring issues that draw psychologists together are person-situation, nature-nurture, stability-change, diversity-university, and mind-body. Person-situation answers the question: Are we masters of our own fate or victims of circumstances? Person-situation debates bring about recognition of how both the person and the situation determine behavior.
Imagine a scenario in which somebody was affected by the actions of others in a negative way. Imagine this person was extremely scared, confused, or angry because of the actions of another person and didn’t know what to do because of it. Now, imagine this person was you. How would you react towards that person that did something to you in the past? Would you apologize to them right away?
One of the most interesting subjects that depicts many explanations about human behavior is psychology. Every human being tends to have a distinct behavior, depending on the situation that he or she was exposed to. The presence of other human beings cause the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors of the person to be controlled or influenced. There is a considerable amount of factors in which the actions of human beings around them are responsible for the process of making their decisions.
When I think positively, I can achieve greater things, however, having a negative mind-set would handicap me in many ways, obstructing me from achieving my goals. By internalizing this presupposition, I have learnt to always think positively and believe that I can accomplish my goals in
