There has been an increase in the types of relationships between human beings. The name of any relationship is simply whatever you choose to call it, for it is whatever you choose it to be. Despite that, no matter what the chemical or emotional makeup of the mind is, one thing that seems to be a common denominator among the majority of human beings is this "quest for love" and its accompanying search for definitions of "what is love". Search no further. Love is.
Blindly so many of us rush through life in search of that heart jolting crescendo of a symphony that can only possible be played by two in life, you and your 'soul mate'. Magically, and often time and time again, one finds that 'soul mate'. Oh the bliss, the joy, and the gratitude
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Blame it on the movies, the songs, even the rain, but the truth of the matter is that the real blame belongs to the one variable that is hard to understand, the love variable. Love is not sadness, anger, happiness, passion, and racing palpitations. These are all individual feelings and/or emotions. Love is. Love yourself. Then you have the freedom to love others. When you can love yourself with "Love Is" as your chief focus, then you will have the freedom and ability to love others in the same way. Love has no boundaries, no cures, no illnesses, no depression, and no sporadic euphoric highs. It allows you to venture forth and explore the best that you can be in all that you can be. Once you have accomplished and mastered this, then you are free to find and nurture that potential in others as you nurture it in yourself.
Love will always be growing, and will always be nurturing, as long as "it is". Wherever there is love, there is the potential of the growth of love. Love allows one to be angry at oneself or others, to be sorry and apologetic, to be passionate, to be hurt to sad, to be daring, to be free, to be whoever one wants to be. For once again, love is. There are no conditions or boundaries set on love. It is love for yourself, for your partner, for your family, for your friends, and for all humanity. There are no perquisites for love, for there is no beginning or end to
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So, without much thought we ourselves begin to attach emotions, rules, and conditions to love. It soon becomes a series of predefined rules, examples of which are "Love is that you show me that you respect me. Love is that you put me before all others. Love is that your focus is to make me happy and my focus is to make you happy. Love is that you take me to this party and prove to the world that I am your Queen/King." And soon enough "love" becomes