Many could have possibly believed they have experienced love at first sight, when in fact it is only just lust . ” Love is much more than a risk, but is a risk that one can take and grasp and fall into a dark abyss or dig oneself a hole and only crawl back when you overcome your emotions”.[133 Authors. Wikihow: How to Define Love.( November 14th,2016)]. According to Noah Elkrief, “Love is what we experience in any moment that we are with someone without our judgments about them or our judgments about ourselves”. For a person to truly love another person we need to completely accept who they are and not try and alter who they are. There is no imaginary scenarios in our heads of what we want the other person to be. We just trust they way they are and overall accept them. He …show more content…
Love is not a two-way street, you do not want anything in return for simply just loving the other person. It also should not set out any expectations or guidelines of what the other person is wanting in life. When you are truly experience love you gain three things: freedom, openness and connection. Apparently when we experience, ‘Love’ there can be a,”Divide” that can cause the connection between a couple to be mistranslated in the end. The, “Divide” which are negative judgments one person might have about the other person or ourselves. We also should not go through life loving just one person, because love is supposed to be simple. Now how do you tell the difference between the mental emotion of love, or the physical attraction of lust? Dr. Judith Orlaff sets a guideline that differentiated between “Pure lust” and “True Love”. She declared when one person is experiencing, “Lust”, “You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body”.” You would rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not moving forward in the relationship.