My biggest influence isn 't a relative or a celebrity, as it might be for most people. Mike Anderson, an author, photographer, and church leader, has had a major influence on me in several ways. He has shown me that my circumstances cannot dictate my happiness, that if I really want something in life I have to pursue it, and that faith is something that everyone has, regardless of their religious views. Like myself, he has had to face and overcome a wide variety of obstacles and trials and has become a stronger, wiser, and overall better citizen and human being because of it, and he has given me the strength and encouragement to never give up even when it seems like the odds and universe are against me.
During sixth grade, my teacher called on me to read in front of class. While I was reading I kept making mistakes. I could hear the class giggling or making fun of me. However, I used all those negative comments as motivation to be the best I could be. Currently, I am about to graduate by the end of this semester with a biology degree with distinct honors.
Every day we practiced our reading skills with simple picture books. I was very proud because I was in the “advanced” group with one other student. Once I learned to read it became an important part of my life. I remember reading books from Dr. Seuss to Magic Tree House to Junie B. Jones and Harry Potter. My favorite book was definitely Amelia Bedelia as it was an easy read that also provided humor.
The summer going into my Junior year of high school, I started volunteering at a retirement community called The Legacy down the road. I helped out by playing games with residents, talking to them, and helping with the weekly socials where we serve treats like pie and ice cream. Not many of my friends understood why I would take the time out of my day and spend it at The Legacy. To answer their question, it is because many of the residents at The Legacy do not have family nearby and have not seen their children, sisters, brothers, etc. in many years, so even a simple conversation with them can really brighten their day.
Throughout my life I have come from and created a few identities for myself. Perhaps, the most dominant identities that have been apart of my life are being an athlete and being a family orientated man. In this paper I will write about how my identities have shaped my life. First off I believe my biggest identity is being an athlete.
Everything was great in my life, until one small thing effected my life and changed it forever, I thought it would effected my negatively, but really, if I could go back, I wouldn’t change a thing. Knew things were introduced, new people, and more experiences. I was anxious and didn’t know what would come from it. Or what caused it. Or what would happen to me and my sister.
In the beginning of 2001 I was a SGT in the 82nd Airborne Division, by January 2002 I was standing in front of the Battalion Commander’s desk being read my second Field Grade Article 15 in seventy days. I was being demoted to Private First Class, being sent to Correctional Custody in Camp Lejeune, South Carolina for thirty days and being moved to a new company when I returned. The first field grade was for disobeying a lawful order from three senior NCO’s, the Brigade CSM, Battalion CSM, and my Platoon Sergeant. They had all told me in the same day at separate times to get a haircut and I failed too, the second was for stealing from the company supply room while on extra duty from the first field grade.
“A dream becomes a goal when action is taken toward its achievement” - Bo Bennett. When Bo said these words he had a mind set that everyone should have while working toward something in life. It is very difficult to work towards something if there isn’t a final goal in mind, people like to work for things this way they can see a “final product”. As we see these final products, it shows us a “thing” that we completed, it shows that we were actually working for something.
My mom was a teacher. She wanted us to love reading and realize how important it was to our future. As I think about my earliest experiences of learning to read, I remember my mom taking my sister and me to check out books at the public library. When I walked into the library for the first time, I became overwhelmed. Books were on every wall, from the floor to the ceiling.
I am generally cheerful though shy and quiet at times. I am responsible and try to give my best. A key strength of mine is being deliberative. For example, in planning for a programme, I tend to research past related materials, consider different options and pre-empt potential issues, so as to implement the programme as smoothly as possible. On the other hand, this sometimes becomes my weakness as I am stressed when faced with uncertainties or last minute changes which do not allow me much time to process my thoughts.
Who am I? That has been the question that remains in my head. I always had a hard time describing myself to others and I did not think that a forty minute assessment would be the tool to make that question answerable. Before taking the assessment I would describe my strengths as being calm, friendly, and outgoing, but after analyzing the descriptions I am more confident what my true strengths are. When I first heard that we had to an online assessment I thought it would be a waste of time.
Who I Have Become Transferring high schools was one of the hardest challenge I have had to overcome. It taught me lessons and put me through challenges I am so thankful for today. While walking around the new halls on my first day, I was overwhelmed by all the stares from kids I have never met before. This was very intimidating and brought about an immense feeling of fear, and I would have never thought that I would have been able to overcome that and become a stronger person from it.
At this time of year, I begin to look back at my life after 12 hard years of schooling. Throughout the course of my life, there have been many ups and downs, but these up and downs is what made me who I am today. These influences have shaped my values, attitudes and beliefs towards life. There have been many important people and events that has impacted my life. One of which is family and the media.
A sense of accomplishment is invaluable to a person. Not only does a sense of accomplishment build confidence and faith in oneself, but it also allows one to reflect on how wonderful the journey to the accomplishment was, and how every little struggle and triumph was worth it. In the middle of summer, where time seems endless and the stress of the previous school year has been shed by students, I never expected to find out that I scored a five on both of the advanced placement exams I took. Nor did I have one-hundred percent confidence the goals we set as section leaders of the marching band would actually be met. Yet to my surprise, I had the good fortune of accomplishing challenging things in both aspects of my life.
Today the books that always manage to get my attention are usually the books based on true events. My earliest memory of being read to isn’t necessarily being read to by my parents but being read to by teachers. Both my parents were always working, so they never had time to read to me. I didn’t have any older siblings to help me so when I started school, it was the first time I was exposed to reading.