Learning to adapt in a new experience can be very scary. When I was in Nepal I never have to worry about any family matters, because I was little and I didn’t know anything about being a responsible member of the family. All the family matters are handled by my Dad and my older brother. I never get to choose what I wanted, I always have to follow what my brother and dad told me to do. And I used to get angry with them because I never get to make my own decision. Although, I always wanted to be a responsible person of my family and make decisions for the family and myself. I used to think that they are taking advantages of being an older member of the family. But after we moved to America everything changed. Because I was the only person in the family who speaks and understand the English language. And now I became a leader of my family. When I get to be a leader of the family I felt like that I’m the older member of …show more content…
It felt like I breathe the air of freedom. Now I get to make my own decisions and I don’t have to work under anyone commands. First, few months was fun and it went well. But then after years of handling things. I just started hating the position that I hold. I didn’t know there were so many responsibilities to became a leader of the family. And there is a time when I have to make critical decisions. I have to check everything is up-to-date. I have to take care of everyone’s appointment all the paperwork’s and have to make sure how everyone is doing. Listen to all the complaint they make. And I have to make sure that there are enough food and vegetables for the week. And also has to make sure that everyone is happy with my decisions. The situations that I’m dealing now makes me stronger and also teaches me lifelong lessons. I always wanted to be a leader and I get what I wanted. But I didn’t know that it would be so difficult to be a leader and handle the situations in the