The Nightmare of being a victim Being a victim makes you think why the bully picks on you and not someone else. Waking up every morning getting ready to start a great day at school, when you remember that the mean person is going to be there. Starting to feel sick telling your parents you don’t want to attend school today, looking for new excuse every day. You get away with some of them and even your parents start to take you to the doctor, but after a while your excuse are not working anymore.When parents start to realize you’re trying to avoid school. Finally, the place you have been avoiding the place where they say, go have some fun with friends and learn a lot ,that is good for your future. Is the one place you don’t feel safe, you get to school and you see that person and hope that mean person did not …show more content…
When parents argue or act aggressive in front of a child, it is more likely that the child will learn that behavior from them. For example in the Social Learning Theory known as Bandura where children observe the people around them behaving in various ways. In this experiment children payed attention to some of the people and encode their behavior. At a later time they imitated the behavior they observed. Just like they imitated the behavior from the people to the doll some kids do the same thing but with their parents. Children learn that being aggressive might be something normal or maybe they even feel powerful and they take this behavior to school. Another great example is when parents are not solving their problems in a room or area where children are around, children feel the right to argue with other or solve problem in a violent way as well by making them feel powerful. This example may cause children to either become the bully or the victim; there are many ether causes for this