This essay will analyze main events in the life of Bowlby and will provide possible links between these and his attachment theory. This essay will study the key features of the attachment theory by relating it to infants in their development. I will reflect on how the attachment theory relates to my life by explaining how the secure attachment I have had to my primary caregivers have caused me to become a functioning member of society who can relate intimately to others. I will also reflect on how the attachment theory relates to my future vocation by explaining how the lack of an intimate attachment between a child and his primary caregivers have caused the child to become an avoidant member of society.
Bowlby was born in 1907 in London and raised in an upper-middle-class family (Cherry, 2017). Bowlby had little interaction with his parents during his childhood because they believed that too much parental affection would spoil him
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I can personally relate to this idea because my cognitive, emotional, and social development was influenced by the intimate attachments I had with my parents; the people who responded to my needs with love. When I was seven years old, I ran straight to my mother after I tripped over and broke my arm. My mother comforted me and took me to the doctors, positively responding to my needs. This meant that I felt protected when my parents were within close proximity and I could take risks and explore my environment, allowing me to learn how to relate to others in society (Drewery & Claiborne, 2014). The attachment theory is relevant to my life because the intimate attachments I had with my parents have meant that I have had little cognitive, emotional, and social developmental difficulties, turning me into a secure individual who can function positively into society (McLeod,