Camden Hardy Mr. Myers 2W 21 May 2024 The Outgrowing of Finding Identity and Love “Maturity is not an outgrowing, but a growing up: that an adult is not a dead child, but a child who survived” (Le Guin). The coming of age is an important stage where a child transitions from childhood into adulthood. Two major components of coming of age are finding identity and experiencing love. Finding identity is important because it helps a person learn who they are and who they want to be. Experiencing love is important because it helps a person learn what to look for in a person and who they want to be with for the rest of their life. An example of a character who experiences finding identity is Holden Caulfield from Catcher in the Rye. In addition, another character who experiences finding love is Juliet …show more content…
However, he learns that he has to take responsibility and can no longer run away from maturity and begin to embrace it. In conclusion, this proves that finding identity is a major stepping stone to coming of age. Romeo And Juliet is a play written by William Shakespeare. He writes the story about two teenagers named Romeo and Juliet who fall in love at a party even though their families hate and are enemies to each other. However, Juliet learns that Romeo is a Montague but loves him the same because she believes her love for him is above his name, and the two later secretly get married. In retaliation for Romeo coming to the party, Tybalt, who is a cousin to Juliet, duels Mercutio, who is a fond friend of Romeo. This enrages Romeo and he kills Tybalt. This ultimately gets Romeo banished from Verona and his beloved Juliet. To make matters worse, Juliet’s father tells her she is getting married to Paris, which enrages her and her father becomes very angry as well. Instead of marrying Paris, Juliet takes a sleeping potion and is perceived to be