Positive Sentiment Override

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Positive Sentiment Override In the principle, “Positive Sentiment Override” you do not let a nasty comment bother you. If you have many positive things to balance off the negative one is it's better to not take it personally. If it’s just an argument that is not worth it. To me, this is a very important principle, to understand that your partner is able to have a different interest other than your own. At times, we fail to see the bigger picture. An example when I experienced, “Positive Sentiment Override” is when I suggested to my partner, we should go to see a concert and he did not pay too much mind and said “I would not go, even if they paid me.” Although this was one of the favorite artists, I did not take it too personally because …show more content…

Masters do not approach the conflict by screaming or yell, they remain calm and are able to consider their partner's point of view. Master use their differences to become closer together not further apart. This principle can be used in any interaction such as with peers, family, or at work. Something doesn't matter what you say rather how you say it. The tone of your voice and body language are important factors that should be acknowledged to convey the best message to others. Conflict should always be approached in a gentle manner to avoid, conflict to grow. “Masters” return to conversations more relaxed and area able to repair conflicts with humor and …show more content…

This principle is is geared mainly for men, those who are able to master this principle are considered to be in successful marriages. Creating a shared meaning is essential for a couple. This shared meaning can emphasize the roles we have, ultimately making a couple stronger. “Masters” would accept the influence of their partners would compromise and are able to calm down easier from arguments. The more upset you get the more you might end up expressing negative behavior. It is important to know when to take a break. I’m really easygoing and so is my spouse we do not have arguments on cleaning or who does what, we just both do the work when we have time. Our opinions are very important to each other and we actively communicate on what is best for our relationship, business, career or life together. We have created a meaning together as a couple but also have a meaning as an