Taking Constructive Criticism By Dale Carnegie

“Any fool can criticize, condemn, and complain but it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.” Dale Carnegie – How to Win Friends and Influence People Employability skills are general skills that are sought after in applicants at any position or level in the workplace. The ability to possess and use them effectively is what will lead to the success or downfall of your career. “Employability skills have a number of names such as soft skills, workforce readiness skills, or career readiness skills but they all speak of the same set of core skills that every employer wants. (In Dealing with Criticism 2011)” Verbal and written communication, capability to work as a team, taking initiative, time management, flexibility, and most important to me, accepting constructive

As we go through life we have plenty of opportunities to make mistakes, learn from them, and grow which will ultimately improve ourselves in the long run. Therefore, no matter what kind of criticism is aimed at you, always be sure to find the silver lining; something you can take and grow from. “Receiving criticism especially from a co-worker, peer, or someone you may not fully respect, can be hard to handle but remember, accurate and constructive feedback can even come from flawed sources. (Taking Constructive Criticism Like a Champ 2012)” Take a moment to step back from the situation and see another point of view, perhaps ask a third-party for their honest opinion so you may be able to use criticism wisely and to your advantage to improve your interpersonal skills. “In matters at work, school or social life, take criticism on board to help you improve, not only for yourself but for your team, friends, and family as well. (In Dealing with Criticism 2011)” Making mistakes is the most natural way any person can learn, and learning how to deal with criticism positively is an important way to improve interpersonal relationships with